What’s On Your Plate? Building Character: Lesson 2

In our last email, we addressed building relationships, because how we relate to one another matters. But how will we know if our efforts need an upgrade? Are the culture (how we behave at school) and the climate (how your school feels) of our character building in line with our vision and our mission? This […]

What’s On Your Plate? Building Character: Lesson 1

For generations, schools have worked with intention to advance their students’ skills in the 3 Rs {Reading, ‘Riting, and ‘Rithmetic}, commonly revered as the core essentials of a child’s education.   We relied heavily on children coming to school with the 3 Rs of the character kind, things like Respect, Responsibility, Relationships, already in place. […]

A Character Diet: What’s On Your Plate? – Intro

Just as the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA) recommends that we maintain a balanced diet which includes nourishment every day from all five food groups to keep our bodies at maximum health, so is it critical to nourish hearts and minds in our character building by modeling and teaching core values while we feed […]

Connecting To Our Community

by Barbara Gruener In a recent Forbes magazine article detailing what employers are looking for in their new hires, the majority of the top twelve skills weren’t content-related skills at all. Nope. In fact, the majority were soft skills which are increasing becoming the new hard skills. So how do we prepare our students now […]

Paradise Lost, New Hope Found

Paradise Lost, New Hope Found by Barbara Gruener It was five months ago, on November 8, 2018, when a fire known as The Camp Fire, which historians are calling the deadliest wildfire in the United States in a century, ripped through and ravaged the town of Paradise. Five months ago, when this Northern CA community […]

Mental Illness: Shattering Its Shroud of Silence

As I walked around the track listening to her fragile heart trying to make sense of her son’s mental illness, I couldn’t help but wonder why she would choose to suffer in silence. But before I even asked the question, I totally knew the answer. Nobody else really knows? I asked her. No, not really, […]

Caring Is Always In Season

You’ve likely heard it said that The best things in life are free, maybe even that The best things in life aren’t things at all, and we wholeheartedly agree with both, which makes the season of giving kind of tricky, because how can we possibly get through the holidays with minimal spending? The answer to […]

How does a school shape character?

  The time had come, my work at our school was done; I could feel it with every fiber of my being. Not because I didn’t like my school anymore, but because I’d grown to love them so much. And when you love something that deeply, you know when it’s time to let go and […]

The Benefits of Character Education

It’s as clear in my mind today as it was thirty years ago, in 1988, when we got a notice from our school district that the time had come to teach core values. They were calling it Character Education (CE); what it meant for me as a district employee was that I was to write […]

Character Building Games

In my two and a half decades as a school counselor, caregivers and parents repeatedly asked me if I could give their child some self-esteem, as if it were something that we could package up and hand to them with a beautiful bow on top. And while I couldn’t technically give them their self-esteem, I […]